Are you a pebble...

The funny thing about life is that you go through these ups and downs. Sometime it seems that the downs are more than that of the ups. However, I know that it is slightly different. I know that we have more ups than downs...we just dwell on the negative a bit too much. I am funny that way...

David and I were on the way to work and I was talking about how horrible my nails looked. He thought that it was funny because he could not see what I was talking about. He stated that is not important to him as a man...but I have to agree to disagree on that one. WHAT? He could not see what or how he could have made an issue of my hands. I explained that when I touch him how he says my hands feel like the softest thing that has ever touched him. How do you thing that happens baby? I asked what he would think if I DID NOT take care of my skin and became crusty and rough. He stated that he would not "really" mind if that were to happen. I so laughed! That is a bald face lie!! Men are mainly visual and touchy by nature...they love the sight and touch of a beautiful woman. Why would I be anything less...but the question arose from his mum, stating that she could not understand why she has been single for so long.

Wanting to blame it on her job, she is very physically active on her job. Honestly putting it, she does do a man's job. However, as I told David...it is all in the packaging. Men like different things indeed, it is all in the presentation. If you come across as a person who is not into their outward appearance, do not think that there is a man that is sitting waiting to make an effort to sweep your of your feet. A man does want a woman that he can have the world envy. In his eyes his woman is a jewel, and if you do not polish yourself then you will not be looked at as a jewel. More so a pebble that if looked at closely will reveal how precious, but at first glance just a simple ol' pebble!

Ladies, do not get mad if your man (or men in general) pays no attention to you anymore. Just ask yourself...am I a pebble or a jewel?